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They have no comprehension of the term “mail order bride” because it was never a part of their culture or history. A “mail order bride is more of a recent phenomena, starting in the mid 1800's, steeped more in the cultures of North America rather than in Russia. In this article I will discuss how this notion of "mail order brides” could reflect on your Russian wife.

With the advent of the Internet, the world began to open up to all peoples with many dating and singles web-sites spring up all over the net.. Because there is a shortage of men in Russia, Russian women have turned to finding love and happiness with men of other countries , for them Internet dating looked like an exciting way to find love and happiness.

Unfortunately for most of these women, they learn the stigma of the term “ Mail Order Bride” after finally arriving in the Western world. Most likely the biggest shock your Russian wife is going to get is the negative connotation, “Mail Order Bride” has and how this relates to her, personally.

I know many Russian-western couples and each react differently to the “mail order bride” labeling. There are those lucky couples who have very supportive friends and relatives where the “mail order bride” question has never arisen. Yet there are many couples who live with the “mail order bride” label as a stigma. As a matter of fact, I personally know a couple, where the husband is running a very successful business and absolutely forbids his Russian wife from EVER telling anyone about the way they met. He taught her to answer that they met by accident while they both were on vacation in Europe. Why? Because he believes that his business partners and his relatives will not accept the fact that he met his wife though a “mail order bride “ situation and the embarrassment would devastate him. If so exposed, by trying to “save face“, he would deeply hurt his wife, as she realizes that the method of their meeting could be construed as shameful. As you might understand, this type of situation would be very depressing and demoralizing for her.

If you are interested in a Russian women, you need to think how she is going to handle the situation when she discovers that the name “ mail order bride”, was not only a part of early American history but that ridiculous and insulting term is part of the 21 century and most shockingly, part of HER OWN life!

PS: During Halloween, few stores stocked a new type of costume–the mail-order bride wedding dress, replete with postage stamps and postmarks. “RETURN TO SENDER" written towards top.

Funny…..

Funny ?

Autor: Marina Smiley

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Sexy, beautiful, intelligent and educated women... Mail Order Brides!

All men want a girlfriend like this!

The problem is there are not many girls possessing those qualities that are unattached and available. Girls like this usually have a string of admirers and an attitude. You might even think they are out of your league.

Think again!

In your country, this may be true… But the world is so much bigger than that! In some countries, things are exactly the opposite way around: there is a huge shortage of nice, intelligent and stable single men!

Take Eastern Europe for example: the latest statistics from The Economist show that in places like Russia and Ukraine there are only 88 men for 100 women! In Russia alone, there are 10 million more women than men!

It means there are TEN MILLION WOMEN that will NEVER find a partner!

Historically, during 20th century, women in Russia always outnumbered men, with World War 2 that took lives of 20 million Soviet people, and other 20 million people that died in Stalin’s concentration camps. 90% of them were men.

At that time, for a Russian woman, simply having a man was a blessing!

This created a unique situation between the genders where women were forced to perfect their looks in order to find and keep a mate.

Check Russian dating sites: you will find there thousands beautiful girls that are looking for a partner: well groomed, fashionable and stylish, they will leave you breathless.

Read about their education and you will be stunned: most of them possess advanced university degrees.

Don’t be surprised: about 60% of people in Russia have college or university degrees, others have completed at least 2-year professional training. The system of professional education was inherited from the Soviet times, where young people were required to attend professional training after completing the mandatory high school qualification. They don’t have equivalents of associate or honors degrees, and the person has to complete at least 4-year degree, or they don’t receive ANY qualification. This is how the state convinces young people to complete their studies. (By the way, education and medical are still f*r*e*e in Russia.)

On Russian dating sites, you will find thousands women that are beautiful, intelligent, educated, fit, stylish and sexy – and at the same time unattached and available.

And they are looking for nice, intelligent and stable guys - just like you!

The bad news is, you will never be able to meet them…

Why?!

Because you never look at Russian dating sites. You have this attitude that “mail order brides” are something a decent man will never consider: it is only desperate losers that would look for a partner at such sites. You read in press horror stories about “mail order brides” and this phrase is strongly connected in your mind with such topics as violence, abuse, sexual exploitation, trafficking in women and immigration scams. You believe that men that seek wives abroad simply cannot find anybody in their own country and seek obedient, submissive wives. Do you?

Well, then you are for a wake up call. There is no such a thing as “Russian mail order brides” – no more than there is Santa Claus!

There are Russian women seeking suitable partners. Those women are not desperate to leave their country and are proud of their inheritance and culture. They are educated, intelligent, and smart. They are not going to become intimate submissives or maids. They will not tolerate infidelity or abuse. They truly seek SUITABLE partners and will not jump on anybody, just to get out of their misery.

In fact, they do NOT consider their life miserable! On her average salary, a Russian woman can afford to attend live performances and beauty saloons a few times a month, buy best-selling books, latest fashion and Italian shoes.

Actually, I used to have much more exciting life in Russia with overseas vacations and quality entertainment than I have now, living in the west!

The same is applicable to many Russian women seeking partners abroad. They are articulate, sophisticated, well read and well traveled.

Obedient, submissive “Russian mail order brides” do not exist!

You don’t have to believe my word.

P.S. Personally, I hate this label “mail order brides”. I believe it is a disgrace to imply a human being can be ordered as an item, and the sacred companionship of marriage may be purchased as an electrical toothbrush from mail order catalog.

C’mon guys! So called “mail order brides” services do not sell women. They sell access to contact information of their members, that’s it – just like you join a local singles club and they give you contact details of people that may be interested in meeting you. Russian dating agencies also have socials like speed dating services where interested men and women can meet each other. Only men and women, themselves, decide whom they want to date. You cannot buy a bride!

It is 21st century, pals!

Wake up – and smell the roses! :-))

Autor: Elena Petrova

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